WHO MAKES UP THE TEAM?
THE FAMILY LAW ATTORNEYS
Two attorneys commit to a collaborative process
They maintain a respectful, cordial non-adversarial relationship while still protecting
their individual client
Each attorney advises the client concerning the applicable law and its effect on the client
Both attorneys encourage a shared vision of process and the outcome so that all four
persons work together to develop options for resolution
Both attorneys model for their clients the ability to hear and understand (active listening) what is important to the opposing
party so that the interests of both parties are promoted
Both attorneys represent their client's interests while validating the other party's interests
Both attorneys work towards a win-win solution
of shared problems presented in four-way meetings
Both attorneys consult with each other and with other members of the team
Both attorneys support the involvement of both clients in articulating their individual
goals
THE MENTAL
HEALTH PROFESSIONALS
Two mental health professionals work with the clients and the lawyers to maintain the vision of a cooperative process
Each mental health professional provides
the client with a safe environment to explore emotions and develop skills needed for a collaborative divorce, however, they
do not engage in therapy
Each mental health professional listens to establish rapport, reduce the client's intense emotions, create a context for
flexible negotiations, and models effective communication skills
Each mental health professional builds on a client's strengths to foster self-esteem
and competence
Each mental
health professional educates to empower the client
Each mental health professional manages and contains conflict that threatens the process
Each mental health professional coaches the client to develop both communication skills
and understanding between parties
Each mental health professional reframes the issues to create opportunities for positive solutions
THE FINANCIAL PROFESSIONAL
One neutral financial counselor assists both
spouses in gathering all of the financial information
Establishes a working relationship
with each client
Identifies
all financial issues
Guides
both clients in a forward thinking, progressive approach to openly discuss and understand what is necessary to provide best
for both new households
Works with the attorneys and clients to achieve a fair settlement
